to marry or to remain single

Good morning sisters and brothers,
Here Paul continues his discussion of people who are unmarried for various reasons. First he considers men who are engaged. If they have their desires under control and want to remain unmarried, he sees this as a good choice. It's a good choice because it helps them to focus on ministry and discipleship. Unfortunately, he doesn't seem to include discussion with the man's fiancee here, which is a pretty major oversight. He says basically the same thing about widows: they are free to remarry (a believer), but it may be easier to follow if they stay single. Overall, the theme is the same: marriage is not bad, but it can distract us. Of course, our relationships can also strengthen our discipleship, but only if we make that a priority.

God bless,
Sam

1 Corinthians 1:36-40

36If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his fiancee, if his passions are strong, and so it has to be, let him marry as he wishes; it is no sin. Let them marry. 37But if someone stands firm in his resolve, being under no necessity but having his own desire under control, and has determined in his own mind to keep her as his fiancee, he will do well. 38So then, he who marries his fiancee does well; and he who refrains from marriage will do better.

39A wife is bound as long as her husband lives. But if the husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, only in the Lord. 40But in my judgment she is more blessed if she remains as she is. And I think that I too have the Spirit of God.