disagreeing gently

Good morning sisters and brothers,
Here as in a few of the other passages we've read from the letters to Timothy Paul urges Timothy to avoid foolish controversy. This is such timely advise to the church since many of our denominations are stuck in controversy. The challenge is knowing how to avoid controversy while promoting the truth and standing up for justice. Many of the controversies that divide the church have to do with important questions that we can't just ignore. At the same time we can honestly try to listen to people with whom we disagree and present our side with humility and the gentleness Paul urges. In that way the disagreement can be seen clearly and without letting it tear people apart.

When we disagree gently we can also keep the focus on the fact that we agree much more than we disagree. That lets us keep the church's ministry the priority while figuring out questions on which there is controversy in the background with the assumption that we are all trying to be faithful. As we pray for the wholeness of Christ's church we move forward in witness to God's love that conquers death and human squabbling.

God bless,
Sam

2 Timothy 2:16-26

16Avoid profane chatter, for it will lead people into more and more impiety, 17and their talk will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, 18who have swerved from the truth by claiming that the resurrection has already taken place. They are upsetting the faith of some.

19But God’s firm foundation stands, bearing this inscription: “The Lord knows those who are his,” and, “Let everyone who calls on the name of the Lord turn away from wickedness.” 20In a large house there are utensils not only of gold and silver but also of wood and clay, some for special use, some for ordinary. 21All who cleanse themselves of the things I have mentioned will become special utensils, dedicated and useful to the owner of the house, ready for every good work.

22Shun youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart. 23Have nothing to do with stupid and senseless controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. 24And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kindly to everyone, an apt teacher, patient, 25correcting opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant that they will repent and come to know the truth, 26and that they may escape from the snare of the devil, having been held captive by him to do his will.